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To Wear Or Not To Wear..That Is The Question

I know this is not a new topic but I want still to talk about it.
Recently a lot of girls I know have taken off their Hijab and as much it boomed at the beginning, now it is disappearing as quickly as it started.
People taking it off for many reasons and the main reason, we look better without it.
The idea scares me, I am afraid that I would wake up and decide that I don't want to wear it anymore.
It scares me like when I start missing prayers that I might stop praying, God forbids, it is not that praying is equal to wearing Hijab but both are very important to me.
Also I don't like the idea that people praising me for still wearing my Hijab, am not wearing it probably and I have a lot to improve so don't make believe that I do what am supposed to do which I am not.

Another thing, there a lot of so-called Hijab Fashionista all over the social media that they don't have anything to do with Hijab, I know I don't have the right to judge any of them but after I followed a lot of them to get idea to dress nicely, I found that they have to do nothing with Hijab.

The Turban Hijab is not Hijab.
The super-tight Hijab is not Hijab.
The loads of make-up is not Hijab.
The head to toe brand names Hijab is not Hijab.
The ankle length pants with anklet is not Hijab.

The Hijab lost its essence while some people try to make it easy. Again am not wearing Hijab as it should be but am not telling 20K followers that this how you should dress your Hijab.

I actually feel more feminine when I dress in a loose skirt or long dress.

I am actually lucky el hamdolliah that I live in European country, believe it or not, Hijab is never a problem here.
I meet clients 3adi with my Hijab and am very presentable not like what they usually say back home.
I went to swimming class with my full covered swimming suit and they had no problem whatsoever with it.
I was never not allowed to go in a place because am covered.

For every girl who about to take it off, pray for God first, renew your beliefs, أن القلوب لتصدأ try to dig for the reasons you first wear it for and go shopping for new clothes.

If you still want to take it off, don't start saying it is not obligation...بلاش فتى وحياه أبوكى

At the end, I can only say اللهم ارنا الحق حقا وارزقنا اتباعه وأرنا الباطل باطل وارزقنا اجتنابه



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