few years ago, after my brother graduation,alot of his friends, his close ones travelled abroad in a search for a better living, i was sad for him and for them.
they would no longer friends like they were, even when they tried to keep the ties.
few years after that, i graduated and my best friend and other close friends did the same, travelled abroad.
when my best friend travelled for the first time, i cried.
second time, i get used to it.
now my brother is going to travel very soon and i am sure i am going to miss him like hell, i will never get used to his absence.
i don't want him to go, although i know it is the best for him.
i don't want him to go, but i wish him happiness and good luck.
i don't want him to go, because we are family, we suppose to be together.
i don't want him to go because i will miss him so bad.
i hate when life blows us away :(
they would no longer friends like they were, even when they tried to keep the ties.
few years after that, i graduated and my best friend and other close friends did the same, travelled abroad.
when my best friend travelled for the first time, i cried.
second time, i get used to it.
now my brother is going to travel very soon and i am sure i am going to miss him like hell, i will never get used to his absence.
i don't want him to go, although i know it is the best for him.
i don't want him to go, but i wish him happiness and good luck.
i don't want him to go, because we are family, we suppose to be together.
i don't want him to go because i will miss him so bad.
i hate when life blows us away :(
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I've lost a lot of people that way, and more to come, I'm sure, but this is life, you can't keep your loved ones tied to your strings forever.
I, for one, don't think I'll be leaving, this is home, this is where my loved ones are, also, life has been good to me here, so why go and be a second or third rated citizen somewhere else?
Just know that it's his choice, and he's decided to take it, he'll never look back and ask himself, what if???
It's not like you'll not see each other anymore.
and I'm here =P
don't u just hate that they have to move? i always keep wondering was it really worth it.
for me, even when life was not good for me here, i always felt it is my home and only moments i felt i want to move away when i am in a big fight with mom :)
Mani:
come on, u live on other continent, that is definitely can not be described as "here", and soon my bro will join u, so treat him so well plz -_-
thanks alot for both of u
I hope he would not stay that long there..
yeah i am sorry too :( and what makes it worse that he might stay for long time only God knows to when bas all i hope that he ll be fine and happy ya Rab
it's really saddening but i can tell you that you'll get used to it sooner that you think, of course some people pretend they are not used it, fearing they might seem too cold. try to enjoy the few days you have left together.
and always remember the only constant in live is CHANGE
it actually what scares me that we will get used to it..we r so close.
hoping that it is change for better ya Rab
And somehow it's a relief to know that the other party feels the same.
I'm sure you both will know exactly how to deal with the whole thing.
actually he does not have to